
Baby Shower Gifts, Starting With the Registry
By the Gift DeskUpdated 21 hand-picked ideas
Three easy answers
A baby shower is one of the few parties where the guest of honor has told everyone, quite precisely, what they’d like. That list was made with care, often after weeks of reading reviews at midnight, and it’s the first place to look. Going off-registry with a surprise can be lovely, but it can also mean a second bouncer in a one-bedroom apartment.
This guide is built around that. It opens with a few words on how to use the registry well, then covers the practical things that are often still unclaimed the week of the shower, books for the baby’s first shelf, keepsakes worth bringing to the party, cheap add-ons to tuck in with the main gift, and a short section for the parents themselves.
If the baby has already arrived, see our guide to gifts for new parents, which focuses on food, sleep and help. For toys and presents as the child grows, try gifts for babies, which is sorted by age, and for a baby due before the holidays, Christmas gifts for baby.
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Shower gift etiquette in brief
Buy from the registry first, and buy early. Then add something personal if you’d like.
Include a gift receipt with anything off-registry. Parents return and exchange more at this stage than at any other.
If you can’t attend, it’s still kind to send a gift from the registry, shipped to the home rather than the venue.
Skip crib bumpers, pillows and soft bedding sets; pediatricians advise a bare crib with only a fitted sheet.
Stuck between options? Tell our gift finder about the parents and what’s still unclaimed on the list.
Common baby shower gift questions
How much should you spend on a baby shower gift?
Most guests spend $30 to $75; close family and friends often spend more or join a group gift. A small registry item with a thoughtful card is always fine.
Is it rude to buy off the registry?
Not rude, but risky. Parents usually build the registry around the space and gear they’ve chosen. If you go off-list, keep it small, useful or personal, and include a gift receipt.
What if everything affordable on the registry is gone?
Join with other guests for a bigger item, give a registry gift card, or choose consumables every family uses: diapers in sizes 1 and 2, wipes, burp cloths or a few board books.
Should I bring a gift to a baby sprinkle for a second baby?
Yes, but smaller. Most families already have the gear from the first child, so diapers, clothes in the right season, meals and something for the older sibling are good choices.



















