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What to Give a Graduate: Graduation Gifts by What Comes Next

Updated 19 hand-picked ideas

Three for any graduate

  1. Oh, the Places You'll Go! by Dr. Seuss
    The classic keepsakeOh, the Places You'll Go! by Dr. Seuss~$9
  2. Linenspa 3-Inch Gel Memory Foam Twin XL Topper
    Off to collegeTwin XL Memory Foam Mattress Topper~$60
  3. I Will Teach You to Be Rich by Ramit Sethi
    Starting a first jobPersonal Finance Book for Young Adults~$14

Graduation gifts are strange because the occasion looks backward and the graduate looks forward. Everyone at the ceremony is celebrating four years of work, and the person in the gown is already thinking about the dorm room, the apartment lease or the first Monday at a new job. The gifts that get used, and remembered, are usually the ones that help with whatever happens next.

So this page starts with a few keepsakes for the day itself, then tackles the question everyone wonders about but rarely asks out loud: how much cash to give. After that it’s organized by the graduate’s next step: heading to college in the fall, setting up a first apartment, or starting a first job. A last section covers small extras to tuck in beside a card.

For more focused lists, see graduation gifts for her, graduation gifts for him and graduation gifts for college students. If the graduate is moving far away, going-away gifts may help too.

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Notes for graduation season

  • Find out what comes next before you shop. A gift for a student heading to a dorm and one for a graduate signing a lease are very different things.

  • Cash is welcome, not lazy. Put it in a card with a few personal sentences and it becomes a real gift.

  • Coordinate with the family on big items such as fridges and suitcases, so the graduate doesn’t end up with two of each.

  • If you’re attending several parties in one weekend, buy small extras in bulk and write each card properly; the card is the part they’ll read.

  • Stuck on one graduate? Describe them and their plans to the gift finder and it’ll suggest a shortlist.

Graduation gift etiquette, answered

How much money should you give for a high school graduation?

Many relatives and family friends give between $25 and $100, with close family often giving more. Give what fits your budget, and put it in a card with a personal note.

Do you have to give a gift if you get a graduation announcement?

No. An announcement is news, not an invitation, and there’s no obligation to send a gift. A card with congratulations is a kind response; a gift is optional. If you’re invited to a party, bringing a card, with or without a gift, is customary.

What’s a good graduation gift that isn’t money?

Something for the next step: a mattress topper and backpack for college, a toolkit and cast-iron pan for a first apartment, or a padfolio and a personal finance book for a first job. A signed copy of Oh, the Places You’ll Go! makes a lovely keepsake alongside any of these.

When should you give a graduation gift?

At the graduation party or within a few weeks of the ceremony. Gifts for college move-in can wait until later in the summer, closer to when they’re actually needed.